NEW INFO: How To Motivate Your Teen -- If your high schoolers doesn't have a stake in the game, they may just not even play!

leewayusa
Oct 1
14 min read

Updated: 5d

Intelligent, humorous, easily befriends others, skilled with his hands, the center of attention at social gatherings, yet inattentive, forgetful, poor at managing time, and capable of earning straight 'A's if he put in the effort—but he doesn't. SOUND FAMILIAR?

You may have one or two of these laying around your house somewhere (pun intended). Most people do. I call them Bob. Not because I know a kid named, Bob. In fact, I pretty sure I have never met a student named Bob, but I used the name once in a lecture and it just stuck.

Homeschoolers comes to me all the time with the complaint that they just can't find a way to motivate their teenager into doing school. They think it is a homeschool issue and they have threatened to send him (it's more often a male but it can be either) back to public school if he doesn't 'get his act together'! But as a specialist in all types of high schools, I can assure you that the problem of LACK OF MOTIVATION is just as common in public and private schools as it is in homeschools. The difference is that if your kid is off all day at a public or private school then you literally don't have to see it.

No matter where or how you do school, your student may not be 'all in'. This is normal. The student might appear uninterested in school, lazy on tests, unmotivated to do homework, or even belligerent, angry, and/or depressed. These are all common but the typical treatment for such problems is not very successful: threats, bribes, medications, or even boot camps.

The best treatment for school related angst of any kind is ENGAGEMENT!

How Do You Engage a Student? Better yet, how do you engage a teenager? Well, the obvious answer is to digitize your lesson -- turn it into a video game! But we all know that learning online, learning alone, and learning through games is not the solution. In fact, online learning has proven to be a boon for corporations (who develop and sell you on a new piece of hardware or software every month) and even for teachers (who no longer have to teach) but it has put the onerous on the parent and the student. But does it work? Clearly not.

So......WHAT IS THE ANSWER?

Does technology work? It can, if used the right way.
Does gamification work? Absolutely but it requires a highly customized approach.
Does online instruction work? Rarely and never on it's own.
Does firm boundaries work? Only if you have used them for years and done it well.
Does sitting side by side and doing it with them work? Off and on but not forever.

In the end, the student has to have ownership in their education!

That's a big statement and it should be an obvious one, but it is the simple truth and not so simple solution to the problem of demotivated students.

Ask yourself, why is my child in school? Seriously, ask your self that question then require yourself to write down an answer. Now look at that answer. Most people will say something like, "It's the law." or "He needs to learn!" or my favorite, "He won't get into a good college if he doesn't do well in high school." I'm not being facetious but why would you ever think that your demotivated high schooler would suddenly love learning once he goes off to college?

Now ask yourself, if it is so hard for me to answer the question of why are we in school, then how hard must it be for my student to understand why he is in school.

The bottom line is that we have stopped truly thinking about why and we are just trying to 'get it done'. That might work for you, up to a point, but a teenager will eventually challenge the need to just blindly do what they are told (it is sort of a requirement for teenager-hood, to challenge authority). So, if you want to motivate your student, stop offering bribes or threatening to take away their fun, and start coming up with an answer to WHY. When you figure it out, sit down and have a talk. Better yet, sit down with them to figure out the WHY. Now they are empowered and nothing is more motivating.

But that is not the end of it. Once you have that deep convo about WHY, you will come to a realization that MOST OF HIGH SCHOOL IS A WASTE!. Studies show that for every 50 minute class at school, only 11 minutes of actual learning takes place. Not because of bad teachers, but because there is a lot of time lost to "Classroom Management". You can debate the truth of this statement with the dozens of researchers who have confirmed it again and again for decades, but the bottom line is that your student has been doing a lot of busywork.

They have been doing busywork year after year and they just don't see the value in doing it anymore. Unfortunately, instead of taking the time to figure out what is busy work and what is worthwhile, they just randomly do and don't do. Thus, demotivation!

If you want to engage a student, first and foremost, get rid of busywork (any work that is being done just because you are 'supposed' to do it). Next, if you are in a position to do so, add in explorative work that allows the student to find meaning in what they are doing.

If you want to never see this in a classroom again, then find a way to get rid of repetitive school work. Replace it with engaging courses that allow the student to explore their career options.

If you are a home schooler or doing a custom program with LeeWay Academy, then you will be doing your core classes in an efficient way like dual credit, AP, or CLEP that allows the student to see the value of their class work. But you will have a lot of extra time since these options are super efficient (when used correctly). So what do you do with that extra time? You take one-off classes or join clubs that let's the student engage. You hunt in your area for people or programs that let your teen learn while being engaged. No, its not easy but it doesn't have to be hard. And it's not terribly expenses either.

CHECK OUT THESE 15 OR SO PROGRAMS IN DFW!

1. Veritas AI - AI Fellowship with Publication & Showcase

Application deadline: Spring (January), Summer (May), Fall (September), and Winter (November). Eligibility: AI Fellowship applicants should either have completed the AI Scholars program or exhibit experience with AI concepts or Python.

Program dates: Varies according to the cohort: Spring, Summer, Fall, and Winter.

Location: Virtual

Cost: $5,400 for the 15-week AI Fellowship with Publication & Showcase

Veritas AI focuses on providing high school students who are passionate about the field of AI with a suitable environment in which to explore their interests. The programs include collaborative learning, project development, and 1-on-1 mentorship. Students are expected to have a basic understanding of Python or are recommended to complete the AI scholars program before pursuing the fellowship.

The AI Fellowship program will allow students to pursue independent AI research projects. Students work on their research projects over 15 weeks and can opt to combine AI with any other field of interest.You can find examples of previous projects here.

2. Health Professions Recruitment and Exposure Program (HPREP) at UT Southwestern Medical School

Application deadline: November 18

Eligibility: Students in grades 10-12 can apply.

Program dates: Every Saturday | January 7 - February 4

Location: University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center

Fees: No information on fees or financial aid is provided.

HPREP offers an opportunity for you to explore the world of medicine, biomedical research, and healthcare through hands-on activities, interactive workshops, and mentorship. You will engage with subjects such as anatomy and physiology, medical ethics, public health, and clinical skills. Through interactive sessions and demonstrations, you work on building practical knowledge and insights into various health professions, such as medicine, nursing, pharmacy, and biomedical research.

3. Engineering Design Experience at the Lyle School of Engineering, Southern Methodist University

Application deadline: Applications typically open in early spring, around February or March; and typically close around April or May.

Eligibility: Rising 11th and 12th graders can apply. Rising 9th and 10th graders can consider the Advanced Engineering camp at the same school.

Program dates: June 5-9 (Boys) | June 12-16 (Girls)

Location: Southern Methodist University (Residential)

Fees: $1300

This 5-day immersive summer camp is where you can learn the fundamentals of engineering and STEM. Through hands-on projects, collaborative activities, and interactive workshops, you gain valuable insight into various engineering disciplines.. Led by faculty and industry professionals, you will learn with the latest tools – 3D-printers, a laser cutter, vinyl cutter, power tools – all the equipment needed to further interest in an engineering, designing, or STEM career. Rising 9th and 10th graders must take a look at Advanced Engineering at the Lyle School of Engineering at Southern Methodist University.

4. Texas Pre-Freshman Engineering Program (TexPREP) at Dallas College

Application deadline: June 2

Eligibility: Students in grades 6-12 can apply. There are year-specific requirements for required grades in math and science that can be viewed here.

Program dates: June 12 - July 21

Location: Cedar Valley Campus, Dallas College

Fees: No information on fees or financial aid is provided.

TexPREP is an academically intense summer enrichment program designed to engage students in the fields of science, technology, engineering and math in a college setting. This program offers the opportunity to explore various disciplines and develop critical thinking, problem-solving, and teamwork skills. The program boasts hands-on projects, laboratory experiments, and interactive workshops, along with access to state-of-the-art facilities, equipment, and resources at Dallas College.

5. Summer Research Program at University of Texas at Dallas

Application deadline: Applications typically open in March.

Eligibility: Current 10th and 11th graders are eligible to apply.

Program dates: June 5 - July 28

Location: University of Texas at Dallas

Fees: $500

This 8-week summer program is an opportunity for students to engage in hands-on research and explore various academic disciplines. It offers the chance to work closely with faculty mentors on cutting-edge research projects in STEM fields. Subject choices include app design and programming, computational biology, cyber security, data analytics, machine learning and more. With this program, work on your research skills and critical thinking, creating a stronger foundation for your further studies. The internship is more selective than the workshops, especially as lab slots are limited. Students meet multiple times a week, and the end goal varies from lab to lab.

6. Coding Camps at University of Texas at Dallas

Application deadline: Applications typically open in March.

Eligibility: Students aged 14-18 are eligible to apply.

Program dates: Different subjects’ courses conducted from June 5 - July 28

Location: University of Texas at Dallas

Fees: $300 for a one-week full-day camp, $150 for a one-week half-day camp. Register before April 1 for an automatic 10% discount.

Financial Assistance: Lowered fees for students from low-income families.

These camps are for students who wish to immerse themselves in the world of coding and computer science. With a range of subjects to choose from, such as Java, C++, app development and python programming, you will work on your practical coding skills, enhance your logical thinking abilities, and develop a foundation in computer science. Through hands-on projects, interactive lessons, and collaborative activities, you will pick up programming languages, problem-solving techniques, and software development concepts. Led by experienced instructors and industry professionals, the camps provide a supportive and engaging learning environment.

7. College Prep Summer Workshops at Southern Methodist University

Application Deadline: Registrations remain open till summer.

Eligibility: Students in grades 9-12 are eligible, there are some courses restricted to grades 10-12.

Program dates: Several workshops to choose from, each conducted on different dates. All are held in the months of June and July.

Location: Southern Methodist University Fees: No information on fees is provided.

These summer workshops cover everything from SAT and ACT test prep to business and entrepreneurship, from creative development to leadership and strategy. As short workshops, they can be a stepping stone on your college journey. Not only that, with workshops specifically for it, they can assist you on your college admission process. You’ll be working with experienced college counselors and admission professionals, apart from expert faculty and instructors.

8. Arete: An Introduction to the Classics at the University of Dallas

Application deadline: May 31

Eligibility: Rising juniors and seniors can apply.

Program dates: June 11-24

Location: University of Dallas

Fees: $1695

This summer program is for students interested in exploring the world of classical studies. Through a combination of seminars, discussions, and interactive activities, you will dive into the rich traditions of ancient Greece and Rome. Guided by renowned faculty members, you will study classical literature, philosophy, art, and history, gaining a deeper understanding of the enduring impact of these civilizations on modern society. The program offers a unique opportunity to engage with the great works of antiquity while exploring a vibrant campus life, and interacting with fellow students.

9. Summer Art Academy at the University of Dallas

Application deadline: May 31

Eligibility: This program is open to all high school students, including freshmen and graduating seniors.

Program dates: June 12-16

Location: University of Dallas

Fees: $425

If you’re looking to explore your passion for art, this summer program is for you. It is a comprehensive introduction to various art forms, techniques, and artistic principles such as ceramics, printmaking and drawing. With hands-on studio sessions, you will hone your artistic skills under the guidance of experienced artists. You will also engage in art history discussions and gain a deeper understanding of the cultural and historical significance of different art movements. This program offers a supportive and inspiring environment for you to unleash your creativity and further your artistic journey.

10. Dual Credit Program at Dallas College

Eligibility: Students in grades 9-12 can apply. There are minimum test score requirements, details of which you’ll find once you select which course you’d like to apply for.

Program dates: Depends on which subjects you choose.

Location: Dallas College

Fees: Depends on the subjects chosen.

This dual credit program is an excellent opportunity for you to earn college credits while in high school. It allows you to take college-level courses that count towards both your high school graduation requirements and college degree requirements. With a wide range of courses available, you can explore different subjects and get a head start on your college education. The program is designed to provide a seamless transition from high school to college and offers the flexibility of taking classes either on-campus or online. So, while you get real-life college experience, this program is also a chance to challenge yourself academically and save some time on your higher education journey!

11. Deep-Dive AI Workshop at University of Texas at Dallas

Application deadline: Applications typically open in March.

Eligibility: This workshop is for advanced-level high school students.

Program dates: June 5 - July 28

Location: University of Texas at Dallas

Fees: $1200

Financial Assistance: Students from low-income families can get in touch with the university for a 40% lowered fee rate.

This intensive workshop is designed to introduce students to the fascinating world of artificial intelligence (AI). Through hands-on activities, interactive sessions, and real-world applications, you will gain a deep understanding of AI concepts, algorithms, and technologies. Led by faculty and experts in the industry, the workshop covers topics such as python programming, data processing, neural networks, and AI model building. You will work on AI projects and collaborate with peers. Whether you’re new to AI or looking to enhance your existing knowledge, this workshop offers a learning experience that prepares you for the exciting field of AI.

12. AMC 8/10/12 Math Competition Summer Camps at University of Texas at Dallas

Application deadline: Applications typically open in early spring. Apply as soon you can as seats fill up quickly.

Eligibility: High school students who fulfill the subject prerequisites can apply.

Program dates: June 19 - 23

Location: University of Texas at Dallas

Fees: $350

Whether you’re a mathlete or just starting out, this program is for you. Designed for students passionate about mathematics and problem-solving, these camps offer the opportunity to enhance your mathematical skills and prepare for the prestigious math competition, American Mathematics Competitions (AMC). Led by a team of highly experienced professors, these camps cover algebra, geometry, and number theory. Through engaging lectures, interactive workshops, and challenging problem-solving sessions, you will deepen your understanding of mathematical concepts and develop problem-solving strategies. Additionally, you will have the chance to participate in mock competitions to sharpen your competitive edge.

13. Drone Camps at University of Texas at Dallas

Application deadline: Applications typically open in March.

Eligibility: All high school students can apply.

Program dates: Two camps, June 19 - 23 and July 17 - 21.

Location: University of Texas at Dallas

Fees: $150 fee, with a 50% lowered rate for students from low-income families.

1Perot Museum Teen Crew by UTDallas and iVue Robotics, are an opportunity for students to delve into the world of robotics and drone technology. Through hands-on learning experiences, you will learn about drone mechanics, flight dynamics, and programming. Led by expert instructors, these camps offer a comprehensive curriculum that covers various aspects of drone technology, including drone design, construction, and autonomous flight. You will work with cutting-edge drone equipment and software and hone your skills in a dynamic and supportive environment.

14. Perot Museum Teen Crew

Application deadline: Dates vary from year to year, applications typically open at the beginning of the year. Spots are limited.

Eligibility: Students aged 14+ can apply.

Program dates: Four 12-day cohorts between June 12 and August 4.

Location: Perot Museum

Fees: Free

The Perot Museum offers volunteer programs that offer a chance to engage in meaningful community service while exploring their interests in STEM fields. The Teen Crew program invites students to join a dedicated team of volunteers, assisting with educational programs, exhibits, and special events. Once accepted, you will acquire experience working alongside museum professionals and engaging with visitors of all ages. Through activities and training sessions, you’ll develop leadership skills, expand your knowledge of STEM subjects, and make a positive impact on the museum's mission to inspire curiosity and ignite a passion for learning.

Here are some more wonderful examples of credit high school classes you can find at homeschool cooperatives or online that will engage any student and motivate their other school work!

American Girls - Blog Post for American Girls

Ancient Science - 40 Time-Traveling, World-Exploring, History-Making Activities for Kids

Art Journalism - Great for Taking Class Notes

Backyard Ballistics - Backyard Ballistics Project Book (Physics Fun!)

Basket Weaving (Yes, literally)

Beginning Beading (Jewelry Making)

Bibliovores - Blog Post for Bibliovores (For kids who devour books)

Blood and Guts - Blood and Guts, Homeschool Share Body Lapbook

Camping Adventure - Blog Post for Camping Adventure

Candymaking - Sample Syllabus for Candymaking

Careers with Animals - Volunteer with zookeeper, pet store owner, veterinarian, animal shelter worker, animal trainers, groomers, conservation officer, kennel attendant, etc.

Caring Quilts - Blog Post for Caring Quilts

Chess (leagues both online and around town)

Choir - Sample Syllabus for Choir

Collage Art - Sample Syllabus

Computer Coding - Just one option, there are many!

Cook with Books - Blog Post for Cook with Books

Cooking Around the World - Blog Post for Cooking Around the World

Cooking for the Family - Sample Syllabus

Creative Cupcakes - Blog Post for Creative Cupcakes

Creative Writing - Blog Posts for Creative Writing

Crochet - All Craft Channel

Dare to Draw - Blog Post for Dare to Draw